I believe in designing my downtime. I’ve spent plenty of days aimless, without plans, looking up from the TV to see that ten hours have […]
The Magic of Anticipation
There is magic in anticipation. My dad would always say “hunger is the best sauce” (mostly to get us to stop whining before dinner) but there is a larger truth there. For me, looking forward to something is half the pleasure. It’s why I like having plans: whether it’s for vacations a year in advance or a simple self-agenda for my weekend.
Working Through Work Fuck-Ups
Yesterday, I discovered a mistake in my work so exasperating that I ended up in frustrated tears. It was a legacy mistake, something I didn’t do myself but had been affecting my world for a few years without me knowing. Because I didn’t know. And it’s my responsibility to know. Three years ago, there was a question that didn’t get asked and it’s going to have some sucky consequences.
The Time to Inhale
Brené Brown is the closest example I have to a spiritual master. Her research on shame, vulnerability, belonging, and leadership moves my life. I watch […]
Temperature
I wish I could take my temperature
Not for my fever, but for my heart
One Ticket, Please
My world got bigger when I realized I could go to the movies by myself. I’ve always loved going to the movie theater. I loved […]
I Got My Library Card and Restored My Honor
I am now a member of the Austin Public Library. Again. Finally.
Give All My Secrets Away
I was thinking about secrets last night. About how I don’t have any. Not on purpose, anyway. Not like I used to.
When You Don’t Know What To Do, Go Outside
When I was fourteen I had a hard thing to say and didn’t know how to say it.
Don’t Let Clothes Hurt Your Feelings
I was reminded of one of my mom’s many life lessons: don’t look at the size, wear clothes that fit.